This blog post is about how to handle fatigue
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Are you feeling sad and very tired? This post can help you learn why and show you simple ways to feel a little better.
How to Handle Fatigue
1. So Tired and Don’t Know What to Do? Start Here
If you feel drained every day and you’ve lost motivation, energy, or happiness, there is hope. I have been there, after becoming a mum, I became so so tired. I found out how to continue to live with the tiredness and how to find happiness in small moments in the day. I want to remind you that you’re not lazy or broken, your body is just asking for some gentle care.
2. Why Am I So Sleepy All the Time?
Depression and daytime sleepiness often go together. You might notice:
- Sleeping through the night but still waking up flat
- Falling asleep during the day, even after coffee
- Avoiding conversations or chores because you feel foggy
- Losing interest in everything except lying down
According to the Mayo Clinic, fatigue is one of the most common symptoms of depression — and it can last for weeks without support.
Mayo Clinic
3. My Story: What Depression and Sleepiness Really Look Like
I’m a mum to 2 young boys. My eldest is autistic and has ADHD. He’s only ever slept through the night a handful of times.
That means, I understand fatigue and extreme tiredness. I get the constant exhaustion that builds over months, the brain fog, the irritability, the heaviness that makes it feel so impossible to function.
On the hard tired days, I don’t push myself. Instead, I give myself permission to:
- Let my kids have screen time if it buys me 20 minutes to rest
- Order takeaway when I have nothing left to give
- Leave the housework and focus on staying emotionally steady
If I do these things, maybe tomorrow will feel a little better. Then, when my energy comes back, bit by bit, I’ll play with my kids. After that, I might cook a meal. In the end, I’ll feel proud that I got through the hard days without being mean to myself.
4. How to Handle Extreme Fatigue (Without Guilt)
If you’ve been feeling constantly drained, here are some real strategies that have helped me and others like you:
Quick Checklist for Tired Days:
- Say out loud: “I’m not just tired. I feel overwhelmed.”
- Let yourself rest without guilt
- Let small things slide (meals, chores, screen time)
- Open a window for fresh air
- Sip a warm drink outside
- Text a friend: “Today’s been hard”
- Stretch for 2 minutes quietly
5. How Do I Know If This Is Depression?
You might be dealing with more than tiredness if you:
- Struggle to get out of bed most days
- Feel numb, irritated, or hopeless
- Have no motivation for things you usually enjoy
- Sleep more than usual or have trouble falling asleep
- Feel overwhelmed by even small tasks
If this sounds like you, it’s worth talking to your GP or a mental health professional.
For a great online resource about depression and how to get help now read this.
6. What Helps When You Feel Like You Can’t Function?
Here’s what’s worked for me and others in this season of life:
- Routine – Even just waking up and going to bed at consistent times can stabilise your energy
- Sunlight – Stepping outside, even when tired, sends a strong wake-up cue to your brain
- Hydration – Fatigue can get worse if you’re even slightly dehydrated
- Gentle movement – A walk or stretch releases feel-good chemicals that combat depressive fatigue
- Letting others in – Ask someone to check in on you or help with meals or childcare
Worry, stress and anxiety can build up over a long period of time. They can reach a point where a person is no longer able to cope or perform their normal daily tasks.
Health direct
Burnout is when a person reaches a state of total mental, physical and emotional exhaustion. It has some similar signs and symptoms to a nervous breakdown.
FAQ: How to Handle Extreme Fatigue And Depression
Can depression make you feel tired all day?
- Yes. Tiredness is one of the most common signs of depression (even if you’re getting enough sleep).
- Oversleeping, especially paired with low mood or low motivation, is often linked to depression.
- You can feel tired all day even after a full night’s sleep. This is so common in people with depression.
If you feel tired and sad for a long time, it’s important to talk to a doctor or a licensed professional. Getting help early can help you feel better quicker.
8. FINAL THOUGHTS
Feeling very tired all the time can make you feel sad or depressed. When your body is always tired, it’s hard to feel happy or do things you enjoy. This tiredness, called fatigue, can hurt your mood and make you feel hopeless. Even if you sleep a lot, fatigue can still stay with you and make your feelings worse. Don’t wait to get help. Seeking professional help now will give you the best chance at recovery.
You don’t have to feel broken forever, you can start to heal today.
This blog post was about how to handle extreme fatigue.
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