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The challenges of being a parent of an autistic child are real. It’s hard work. You get tired, worried, and feel like you must do it all. But the truth is when you get help and rest, your child feels better too.
This post is about challenges of being a parent of an autistic child.
challenges of being a parent of an autistic child
1. It’s Hard Because You Care So Much
You love your child with all your heart.
I know that you go to every appointment.
You try your best every single day.
But you get tired. You feel heavy. You just want a break.
That’s one of the hardest parts, loving so much that you forget you matter too.
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2. My Story: When I Finally Slowed Down
For a long time, I thought my son would do better if I actually just did more.
More therapy. Or maybe more work. I thought, I needed to put more effort into getting more autistic education and finding the next best thing for him. More effort.
But I was worn out.
When I finally rested and got help for me, he calmed down too.
That’s when I realised, my own care wasn’t extra.
It was part of his care.
I believe in this so much that I created ASD Mum Club. It’s a place for us all to calm our nervous system so that we can be the best mum to our ASD child.
3. When You Feel Calm, They Feel Safe
Your child feels your energy.
When you are calm, they feel calm too.
You don’t need to fix everything, you just need time to breathe.
Even small things help:
- A quiet cup of tea
- Saying no to one thing
- Talking to someone who understands
Your calm helps your child.
4. Join the ASD Mum Club™
If you’re ready to rest and feel human again, join ASD Mum Club™. Its a calm, safe space just for mums of autistic kids. You’ll feel supported, seen, and reminded that you matter too.
5. Final Thoughts
Being a parent of an autistic child is full of love and challenges. But you don’t have to do it all alone. When you take care of you, your calm becomes their calm and that changes everything.
Written by Renee Firth
Renee Firth helps women stay calm, clear, and in control of their mental health. She shares her real life as a mum to two young boys, one with autism and ADHD. Her words are warm, kind, and encouraging, giving women simple steps to feel stronger and cared for every day.
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